![]() ![]() Not true for everyone, I talk to my Husband about any issues he and I are having since those issues are between us and they stay between us because that is the only way things will be worked out. Communicate about things.īut, with your girlfriends talk about our emotional stuff. Relationships between a Man and a Women go better if a Women has her girlfriends to talk with.īe with your man, be close, be loving, take care of each other. I heard something once and I'm not going to be able to put it down in such good words. After awhile, all I hear is "blah blah you.do. blah blah" and I could really care less what they're saying and I realize that I have to do the ending. If you're getting into arguments all the time, have you considered that you're just not compatible? I know that if I'm with someone and we're not compatible, all they want to do is yammer on and on about how I need to change whatever to suit them so we're more compatible. However, you lay next to him in this big ball of misery while he falls asleep which is pretty much the best escape there is next to leaving the residence. ![]() What he probably needs is for you to leave him alone till he can calm down. You get emotional at the end of the argument, he gets angry. If say, your dog died and he didn't comfort you, then I'd call him out for it, but a fight is a fight and unless you're the victim of severe emotional abuse, in which case, you'd probably not attempt to bring up subjects with him at all, then you should handle the fallout from arguments in your own way. I've always felt crying in an argument was akin to emotional blackmail. I feel like you might be needing a lot more emotional, mental and physical support than any one man (or one army) might provide. How can two people be together when one doesnt aupport the other mentally physically and emotionally. There is more to this than you have disclosed i'm sure. You like the fact that he isn't a sad sap, and brushes off your repeat bedtime b.s., otherwise you would have left him by now.ĭid you leave the last guy who cuddled and told you he was sorry and everything will be alright? could you handle sleeping in a different room than your bf? do you have sex before or after you cry? do you feel refreshed in the morning? I often think when im lying next to him asleep if we can really be together. ![]() He on the other hand sleeps through the night and acts like nothing happened the next day. I feel terribly lonely when we fight and often get depressed. You are NOT worth the hours I've spent thinking about you You are NOT worth the friends I've lost because I chose you You are NOT worth anything You are NOT worth me You DONT deserve anything You DONT deserve to be happy.SO My bf and I, who have been together 3 years, always seem to get into an argument around bed time, and like the story above, I sometimes cry and he just tells me(usually pissed off yelling) to go to bed and rolls over and falls asleep.while im still crying!!! Ive talked to him many times about him not comforting me and it seems like he gets even more annoyed when I get emotional. You are NOT worth the nights I've stayed up for you. You are NOT worth the tears I've shed for you. I guess you never really know someone I guess love is really blind. ![]() It's funny how he never met you Yet managed to see the lie. But in the end, he was right Sadly I was wrong HE cared enough to tell me Man enough to say what was going on. I have someone who knew who you really are And he told me what was true I denied everything I told him cheating is something you wouldnt do. You tell me that you hate me That you never really cared You keep telling her all these lies And she's not aware. When I see you now I feel so cold You arent the person I thought you were You smile at me so bold. So I've let go of you But it took me two months To slowly erase the memories Of your laugh and your touch. Without so much as a goodbye Without saying Im sorry Without giving me a reason why. Now when I think of you My heart slowly starts to sink. and since you left, I've been feeling my heart break. But it isn't because you and I are having some fight. I've been crying myself to sleep every night. ![]()
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